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Working through a couple’s conflict “hot spots” towards new intimacy

6 Oct 2014: I work with many couples and thus many “hot spots”. I have observed how couple systems seem to have perfected into an art the process of rooting out areas that leave each other breathless with vulnerability. From personal experience in my own long term

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From a pattern of family violence to new choices

Johannesburg, 12 Sept 2014:  I’ve been working with a family that is accustomed to relationships that are guided and informed by violent interactions. After a particularly violent interaction, in which an extended family of siblings and their adult children had come to blows, with young children as

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